blissfully yours

Our words hold so much more power than we imagine. A sincere, heartfelt exchange can give people hope, energy, and joy. It is one of the few things we can use to show others that we care for them and value them.

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As I grew up, I found myself not being able to constantly check up with my friends or spend as much time with my family. I am sure many of you could probably relate to this.

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However, one way I express my love for them is through my words. If a friend did something amazing, I told them that I was proud. If I happened to realize something off about someone, I try to check up on them, or ask their friend to stay by their side. If a loved one is struggling, I made sure to let them know that they’re not alone.

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This is because even on the most overwhelming days, I get the courage to push through when a friend or family tells me: “hey, I’m here for you if you need anything”, and I feel a little bit of joy whenever someone compliments me.

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If you don’t have a habit to show affection to others, it might be a little hard to get started. But don’t worry, here’s a little starter pack !

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One type of compliment that I find super cute and sweet is what I call the “smols”. They are compliments on the little, lovable things about someone. Maybe your friend has a funny laugh, a cute habit, or an extraordinarily supportive personality- let them know that you love that about them!

 

 

Another type of compliment are the “thank yous”; we use them to show that we are thankful for the people in our lives. Perhaps a friend brings you happiness, gave you a helpful piece of advice, or trusted you when no one did. Let them know that their presence means a lot to you with a sincere thank you ! 

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We hardly spend enough time recognizing our beauty and sometimes it really does take that person to say “hey you bring such positive energy into the room” to make you realize that you’re very much appreciated by those around you. So if you can, use these compliments help other people see their beauty. Next time you find an amazing quality about someone, let them know, and maybe you’ve just made their day !